A Pre-Marital Conversation Workbook for Engaged Couples
Work through structured conversations on values, money, family, children, conflict, and life direction using a complete workbook designed for couples.
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Course contents
6 modules · 29 lessons · 3h 3m
1
Foundations of Conversation: Rhythm and Preparation
Establish a sustainable environment for dialogue and learn how to use the workbook.
- Why Do We Need 'Pre-marriage Conversations'?
Understand why practical agreements are necessary beyond just feelings.5 min - Creating Our Own Conversation Rhythm
Set a recurring time to talk consistently despite busy schedules.7 min - Rules for Safe Conversation
Establish principles for sharing opinions honestly without blame.6 min - How to Use the Workbook Templates
Learn how to record your thoughts using the provided guides and summary notes.5 min - Checking Our Current State
Record what each person perceives as the strengths and weaknesses of the current relationship.7 min
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Values and the Future: Aligning Life Directions
Translate abstract values into concrete actions and visions.
- Moving Beyond Abstract Words
Define the specific behaviors that words like 'happiness' and 'respect' mean to each of you.6 min - My Top 3 Core Values
Identify the non-negotiable life priorities for each individual.7 min - Finding Our Shared Values
Select the core values that the two of you will uphold together as a family.7 min - Us in 5 and 10 Years
Specifically visualize your future housing, career, and lifestyle.8 min - Writing a Shared Direction Statement
Summarize the future you dream of in a single sentence.6 min
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The Philosophy of Money: Aligning Financial Expectations
Identify and agree on each other's attitudes toward spending, saving, and debt.
- Our Individual Histories with Money
Share the attitudes toward money learned in childhood and current spending habits.7 min - Priorities for Spending and Saving
Establish specific criteria for where to spend and where to save.7 min - Transparency in Debt and Assets
Honestly disclose current financial status and discuss management plans.6 min - Supporting Parents and Allowances
Set the scope and limits of financial support for your families of origin.7 min - Financial Agreement Summary
Finalize a written agreement on how to manage joint assets.5 min
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Expanding the Family: Families of Origin and Children
Set boundaries with families of origin and flesh out future plans for children.
- Understanding Family of Origin Dynamics
Analyze each other's family atmosphere and how it might affect the relationship.7 min - Guidelines for Holidays and Family Events
Establish rules for visiting both families and participating in events.6 min - Family Planning and Starting a Family
Share honest thoughts on whether to have children, timing, and the number of children.7 min - Aligning Parenting Values
Discuss what kind of parents you want to be and priorities for discipline and education.7 min - Dividing Chores and Childcare
Draft a practical plan for dividing household chores and childcare roles.7 min
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Intimacy and Communication: Conflict Management
Understand conflict patterns and learn how to maintain emotional and sexual intimacy.
- My Conflict Response Pattern
Explain typical reactions (avoidance, aggression, etc.) when angry.6 min - Identifying Emotional Triggers
Identify the 'minefield' of words or actions that hurt each other's feelings.6 min - Our Reconciliation Protocol
Create agreed-upon signals and procedures to restart conversation after an argument.7 min - Maintaining Emotional and Sexual Intimacy
Share how each person feels loved and their sexual expectations.8 min - Communication Agreement Summary
Record promises for handling conflict and maintaining intimacy.5 min
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Completing the Workbook: Our Promises
Summarize all discussions and specify areas that require ongoing effort.
- Reviewing All Recorded Content
Read through the summaries of all the modules completed so far together.5 min - List of Topics for Ongoing Attention
Create a list of items that are not yet fully agreed upon or require further discussion.6 min - Finalizing the Direction Statement
Finalize the couple's ultimate vision that encompasses all previous conversations.5 min - Signing the Written Agreement
Sign the agreement that will serve as the foundation for your married life.5 min
Our First Constitution: The Pre-marriage Conversation Agreement
Compile the summary notes from the 7 core areas and your 5-to-10-year vision statement into a single final document.
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